Becoming HER provides psychology-informed coaching for women who want to better understand who they are, how their identity was shaped, and how that identity is driving their choices and relationships.
THE BECOMING HER SECURE SELF FRAMEWORK™
Becoming HER is about building a strong, secure sense of self.
Not therapy. Not quick fixes.
Psychology-informed coaching that helps you understand your patterns, strengthen self-trust, and build healthier relationships with yourself and others.
The Becoming HER Secure Self Framework™ is structured around four core areas of development that clarify your identity and reshape the way you relate.
1. Identity Clarity
You’ll develop a clear understanding of how your experiences, beliefs, and roles have shaped your identity — and how that identity influences the way you think, choose, and relate.
2. Emotional Clarity
You’ll develop the ability to accurately identify your emotions, communication patterns, and internal reactions — and understand how they shape your decisions and relationships.
3. Self-Trust & Standards
You’ll strengthen your ability to trust your judgment, define your standards, and enforce boundaries — consistently and without hesitation.
4. Relational Standards
You’ll approach relationships with clear expectations, consistent boundaries, and the ability to choose connections that align with your values.
This is how you build the clarity, stability, and self-trust that define a secure woman.
This is how you Become HER.
After just one session
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Claire S.
Food Developer & Creator
Los Angeles, CA
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Whether you're looking for targeted clarity or deeper identity development, there are two ways we can work together
Meet Your Coach
I’m Elyssa — and I help women build a stronger, more secure sense of self.
With a background in education and developmental psychology, my work focuses on helping you understand your patterns, strengthen your self-trust, and improve the way you show up in your relationships.
When you understand yourself clearly, you make better decisions, set stronger boundaries, and show up with more confidence.
This is thoughtful, psychology-informed coaching for women who are ready for meaningful change.